This is a slightly different post to my normal posts and I really thought hard about whether to write this or not, but I made the decision that it was too important not to. It’s important before I start to make it very clear that I do not mean to offend anyone with anything I write, and this is just my own opinion, so is definitely not aimed at any one individual. The aim of this post is purely to hopefully bring awareness to situations and bring communities together in unity. So here goes.
A week ago my eldest sons best mate was out enjoying a local festival in memory of a young girl who sadly lost her life to a dangerous driver, so given the cause of the event, it makes what I’m about to tell you all the more horrific. As the event was drawing to a close, the young lad was set upon by what can only be described as monstrous thugs, nothing to be gained from the attack other than their own sick enjoyment. I won’t go into details to respect our friends privacy, but I will say this was a completely unprovoked attack and aside from making me sick to the stomach at the injuries he endured, it has shocked our town to the core, especially as on the same night, according to the local news, another man was attacked minutes away from the first attack. The consequences of these attacks will go on for months, even years, and the thugs that are guilty are still walking free at this moment in time to potentially do this again.
My sadness for these attacks aside, this has really struck a chord with me, as things like these are happening up and down the country every day. I realise that there are the most horrendous events happening in some of the bigger cities around the uk, and we as a town have been quite fortunate that we have been largely sheltered from such things until now, But it is becoming very very apparent that these monsters are completely unafraid of the law, and that they are pretty much feeling they are free to run around doing as they please in our towns and cities and even villages, and that they have people running scared. but this last week has shown me just how strong community spirit can be, and what the power of people can do. However community spirit is not enough alone, parents need to start standing up to their kids, stop blaming everyone but themselves for what their children have become. I know, I know, sometimes our children fall in with the wrong crowd, they socialize and mix with circles that we wouldn’t necessarily choose for them, but if you’ve instilled the right morals into them, if you’ve been there to help through their tough times and been their crutch and their everything, I’m not saying they won’t still test the boundaries, but it will help them along the way of the wrong and right path. I do appreciate that not every case is black and white, and there is a lot of grey area in what is happening in society at the moment, but one thing is for sure, we are afraid of the children/young adults that are harbouring our places that we love right now.
So the point of this post is me begging people to stand up to what is wrong in our home towns/villages/cities, and pleading with the government to stop making cuts within the police (and other) services, so the proper sanctions can be put into place, give police their power back, so these cretins can be held accountable to the atrocities that they evoke onto the innocent people who live in the places we love and call home.
To anyone that has been affected by violence and these dregs on our society, I wish you love and healing and hope that you are not affected too deeply by this (sadly) growing minority of awful people. And to the next prime minister, not that I am for one second expecting Boris or Jeremy to be reading this, but please please help us remove and re-educate these people, and make the places we love and call home, safe again.
For K & J, we love you millions.
Much love. xx























